In a Moment…

Are you struggling with something?

Are you mad at a friend or family member?

Are you holding a grudge against someone who has treated you wrong?

I’m sure we all can say “yes” to those questions. Can’t we? Of course we can we are human.

Most of us are caught up with family drama, friend drama, or just drama that the world causes us every day.

But is it really worth it?

It only takes a moment and your life could change dramatically. Anything could happen…

We shouldn’t get so caught up with drama and things of this world when in a moment your life or someone else’s life could be gone…

In the end does the drama or what someone did to you really matter? We shouldn’t hold grudges or try to create drama in some else’s life. At any moment your life could be taken away.

We should love more that hate.

It just takes a moment and life could be gone…

The past few weeks have shown me how precious life really is. In just a moment anything could happen.

Love your family and friends now before it’s to late. Share love, not drama.

I’m not saying to act like life is all rainbows and flowers. I know life is hard, trust me! And I know it’s not possible to always be happy or stay out of drama or to not be mad at a family member or friend. It’s just not possible. But we don’t have to hold onto that anger and let that control our relationship with that person.

We all have the right to get mad every now and then but don’t hold onto that anger. It will only hurt you. I promise! There have been several times where I would have to leave my anger at the alter and walk way. And if I didn’t I knew it would effect my relationship with that person and it would eventually turn into bitterness towards that person.

Now if you know me you know I don’t get mad very easily. I’ve only lost my cool about 1 or 2 times at youth or somewhere. When someone is about to make me lose my cool and make me go off I normally always just walk away. Because I know if I stand there much longer I’m going to say something I will regret. And I’ve learned anger will pass but words can not… That old saying… “Sticks and stones may break my bones but words will never hurt me” is a lie!! Words can last a life time and can destroy! That’s why I always walk away from an argument before I start to open my mouth. It’s better to just walk away than win the argument.

So let go of the anger and drama. And love your family and friends.

Because in a moment everything could change…

21 thoughts on “In a Moment…

  1. Thank you for sharing!… wise words!.. no mad, anger or hate here, the only struggle I am having at the moment is my typing… πŸ™‚

    β€œHolding on to bitterness is like taking poison and expecting the other person to die”…

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  2. “anger will pass but words can not” – This is so true! It’s so much better not to say anything in a moment of anger. You can go back and talk things out later. But once you’ve said those injurious words, you can’t make the other person forget them. That makes things so much harder.

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